Non-Violent Bystander Intervention

Defense Equal Opportunities Management Institute

(DEOMI)

1. Name and Acknowledge The Offence - 

'Excuse Me Sir, Are You Raping Her...?'

2. Identify The Obvious - 

'Sir, This Would Appear to Be a Rape.'

3. Interrupt Behaviour - 

'Sir, Would You Mind Pulling That Out of The Young Lady.'

4. Publicly Support the Aggreived Person - 

Make a Donation. Go, Victim!

5. Use Body Language - 

Hand Signals, Semaphore, Pointing.

6 Carefully Use Humour - 

Tickle his balls.

7. Encourage Dialogue - 

Talk to The Victim and The Perp

8. Ease Strong Feelings - 

Try to Calm her, and him, down.

9. If All Else Fails, Call for Help - 

"HELP US!!!"