Showing posts with label Swan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Swan. Show all posts

Sunday, 11 March 2018

Kali-Ma - The Divine Feminine Rage

"There is very little difference between the capacity for Mayhem and Destructionintegrateand Strength of Character"


"There is very little difference between the capacity for Mayhem and Destruction, integrated and Strength of Character"







" Sometimes people are bullied because they can’t fight back. This can happen to people who are weaker, physically, than their opponents. This is one of the most common reasons for the bullying experienced by children. Even the toughest of six-year-olds is no match for someone who is nine. A lot of that power differential disappears in adulthood, however, with the rough stabilization and matching of physical size (with the exception of that pertaining to men and women, with the former typically larger and stronger, particularly in the upper body) as well as the increased penalties generally applied in adulthood to those who insist upon continuing with physical intimidation. 



...But just as often, people are bullied because they won't fight back. This happens not infrequently to people who are by temperament compassionate and self-sacrificing—particularly if they are also high in negative emotion, and make a lot of gratifying noises of suffering when someone sadistic confronts them (children who cry more easily, for example, are more frequently bullied).

It also happens to people who have decided, for one reason or another, that all forms of aggression, including even feelings of anger, are morally wrong. I have seen people with a particularly acute sensitivity to petty tyranny and overaggressive competitiveness restrict within themselves all the emotions that might give rise to such things. Often they are people whose fathers who were excessively angry and controlling. 

Psychological forces are never unidimensional in their value, however, and the truly appalling potential of anger and aggression to produce cruelty and mayhem are balanced by the ability of those primordial forces to push back against oppression, speak Truth, and motivate resolute movement forward in times of strife, uncertainty and danger."





CAUTION WITH KALI

When invoking Kali within, we must do so with care for what may emerge upon her calling. 

Unholy structures must fall, beliefs and language which are only self-serving and do not include the collective of compassionate humanity must go. 

She is the housecleaner who dances through the battlefields of life and calls out the false matrixes at play. 

She is the one who would shut down the factories making a fortune off of child-labor or animal cruelty. 

She is the muddied feet dancing over the tables of Congress to bring shame to the unrighteous laws being passed there. 

She is the part of us who both feels that Earth is our home and we must protect her—while at the same time feeling “not from here,” in an off-planet, unattached to the outcome of her actions sort of way. She is the part of us who cares only for the results of her rage…that those things which should no longer stand due to their ignorance do not stand.

I have never felt a more important time in reality for Kali to emerge in all women (at the very least). Right now this earth is a giant home in chaos. Women have been shut down and taught, in so many cultures worldwide, to stand back or keep their opinions to themselves or to follow the lead; this can no longer be the case if we are to evolve as a species. Kali must come forth in all of us. We must not be okay looking away from what is discordant to us all. We must not fear our inner rage and what will come of it if we let it out in alignment with truth and compassion.

In order to call forth Kali within we could use words like this:

“I now choose to invoke the aspect within me which can no longer look away from the ignorance, which can no longer tolerate intolerance, which can no longer watch the atrocities of this reality, against children, against women, against people of color, against animals, against the Earth herself. 

I invoke Kali in me to bring forth the Divine Rage which cuts through the illusions of ignorance, which slices through the illusions of false truths and false safety, to the heart of this reality. 

I call forth my Divine Feminine Mother self, full of fierce loving rage so that I may take back for the Earth what is hers, for the Children what is theirs, and for the beating Human heart what is the Divine Birthright of all humanity. 

I call forth the part of me who fears nothing, who knows that my Divine Consort and Beloved—the Consciousness in me which is Shiva-mind—still pointed, calm, and resolute—is standing ground under me and for me. I now choose to activate the Divine Rage of the Mother of us all—in form—so that I may begin to participate in the great change which must now come at this stage in Human Evolution. 

I choose to allow the incineration of the old, the death of the old ways and the removal of a paradigm of regret and sorrow in order to usher in a great transformation of the Ages…which is the role of the Kali in me. 

And so it is. 

As the Butterfly bursts forth from the Cocoon, so too does Kali—in me—burst the fabric of Creation in order to reveal the next cycle. “





When asked about PTSD, Complex PTSD, Schizophrenia and  Borderline Personality Disorder Teal gives her mind about The Current Mental Health System and how Diagnosing can injure people.  Diagnosing in Mental Health creates negative patterns within ourselves.  

For More views on Teal's perspective of different mental health conditions simply search them in Youtube.

This is an excerpt from the March 4th 2018 Online Synchronization Workshop.  To view the rest of the workshop please visit 


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Rage, Rage Against The Dying of The Knight...

Thursday, 21 December 2017

Barton's Been Compromised


That moment where you just look, think back and recollect over the whole of the Joss Whedon cannon and suddenly realise that it's all about Malignant Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse.

All  of it. 
Including the Shakes-Spear.

 Because that's what not having a soul means, in the Neoplatonic sense of the word.

A total lack of personal empathy or concern for the welfare of others beyond the standard restrictions of social norms.

He and his writers even describe, directlty, the experience of someone with a normal, healthy empathic sense coming into contact with (or falling under the influence or control of) a pathological malignant narcissist ;


AND those moments when you are told by someone that the person who first opened your eyes, trusted in you and liberated you from the grip of Malignant Narcissim has fallen from Grace, gone off The Wagon, become lost and is in trouble :


Barton's been Compromised


Angelus is Back


Step Away From The Glass





 "Nothing but showy gypsy stuff... 

But you're not gonna catch him napping in a crypt. 
No, The Count has to have his luxury estate and his bug-eaters and his special dirt, don't he? "



Ethros Demon: 
I am Ethros. 
I corrupted the spirits of men before they had speech to name me. 
The child was but the last among tens of thousands. 
One more pure heart to corrupt, one more soul to suck dry.

Wesley Wyndam-Pryce: 
Well chalk up one exciting failure. 
You didn't get that boy's soul.

Ethros Demon: 
Hmph. What soul? 

Do you know what the most frightening thing in The World is? 

Nothing. 

That's what I found in the boy. 
No conscience, no fear, no humanity. 

Just a black void. 
I couldn't control him. 

I couldn't get out. 

I never even manifested until you brought me forth. 


I just sat there and watched as he destroyed everything around him, not for a belief in evil, not for any reason at all. 

That boy's mind was the blackest hell I've ever known.

Angel: 
The marbles. That was you.


Ethros Demon: 
When he slept, I could whisper in him. 
I tried to get him to end his life, even if it meant ending mine.

Angel: 
You sleepwalked him in front of the car.

Ethros Demon: 
I had given up... hope. 

I know you bring death, I do not fear it. 

The only thing I've ever feared is... in that house.


Cut to Xander rounding a corner on the dark street. 
He jumps in shock when he sees Dracula waiting for him.

XANDER: (sighing
Great. Perfect. 
(suddenly deciding he's not scared
You know what? You're not so big. 
(Looks Dracula up and down
One round of old-fashioned fisticuffs, you'd fold like a bitty baby.

Dracula scowls.

XANDER: (rolls up sleeves
Okay, let's do it. And no poofing. 
Come on, puffy shirt. 
Pucker on up, cause you can kiss your pale ass-

DRACULA: 
Silence. 

XANDER: 
Yes, Master. 
(Shakes head
No, that's not-

DRACULA: (lifts a hand
You will be my emissary, my eyes and ears in daylight. 

XANDER: 
Your emissary? 

DRACULA: 
Serve me well. You will be rewarded. 
I will make you an immortal. 
A child of darkness that feeds on life itself... on blood.

XANDER: (in Dracula's accent
"Blood"? (speaking very quickly
Yes! Yes! I will serve you, your excellent spookiness.

Dracula frowns.

XANDER: (still speaking too quickly)
Or Master. I'll just stick with Master. 

DRACULA: 
You are strange and off-putting. 
Go now.

Xander nods, turns to go, turns back.

XANDER: 
But Master, how can I find- 
(Sees Dracula is gone
Brilliant. What an exit! Guy's a genius! 
(Giggles crazily and walks off)


*****

XANDER: 
Got it! Got it. Mine, mine. 
(Note: throughout this scene Xander speaks each line very quickly and moves around a lot.)

WILLOW: 
Well, I think we have Dracula factoids. 

XANDER: 
(sitting on a stool eating the donut) 
Like any of that's enough to fight the Dark Master.

Everyone gives him a strange look.

...bator. 

WILLOW: 
A lot of it we already knew. (Riley walks to another chair opposite the couch) 

Turnoffs: 
wood, 
fire, 
crosses, 
garlic. 

Turnons: 
nice duds, 
minions, 
(wistful) long slow bites that last for days... 

RILEY: 
Yeah, I did a little research too. (Shot of Buffy looking distracted) Dracula likes to live in style. Which means we can rule out the usual dumps vampires haunt. 

XANDER: 
Ah! But he's smart enough to figure that we probably already know that. I'm guessing he's lying low. 
(Licks his donut. Giles comes out from the kitchen

WILLOW: 
Actually, my research backs Riley up. Drac isn't the lay-low type. 

GILES: 
(gives Riley a glass of milk
So we can, uh, check out the nicer places. Don't you think, Buffy?


GILES: 
Buffy?

Buffy blinks, tunes back in.

BUFFY: 
Yeah. We'll check all the swanky places first. 
What else did you guys get? 

GILES: 
Well, Willow has most of it, actually. 

WILLOW: (sits up) 
Only because you gave me super pointers! I never would have... 

GILES: 
(puts up hand to stop her
Just go ahead, Willow. 

WILLOW: 
OK. Dracula's modus operandi is different from other vampires. 
He will kill just to feed, but he'd rather have a connection with his victims. 
And he has all of these mental powers to draw them in.

Buffy looks thoughtful.

WILLOW: 
He, he can read and control minds... appear in dreams... 

BUFFY: (distracted
Uh huh. 

WILLOW: 
Makes sense. 
That stare ... he just kinda ... looked right through you. 
Didn't you feel it, Buffy?

Riley looks at Buffy.

BUFFY: (pause) No. (gets up) No, I didn't.

XANDER: 
See! Buffy didn't feel it. 
I think you're drawing a low of crazy conclusions about the unholy prince.

Everyone gives him a strange look.

XANDER: 
...bator. 

GILES: 
The point is, though he goes through the motions of an intimate seduction, the end result is the same. 
He turns them into a vampire.


XANDER: 
Well. That is intimate. 
Dracula's gifting these ladies with his own blood. 
And blood -- 
(He notices a spider on the desk next to him, glances around to see if anyone's looking

Blood is Life.

Everyone looks confused.

According to Them. 
(Slams his hand down on the spider

GILES:
 Um ... Just be aware that he, he tends to form a relationship with his prey. 
(When no one's looking, Xander scoops the spider into his mouth and chews
It's not enough for him to take her. She must want to be taken. She must ... burn for him. 

(Buffy looks uncomfortable, fiddling with her scarf.) 



Wednesday, 13 December 2017

How To Awaken The Divine Masculine Within You - by Teal Swan (andfriend)



SOLVE et COAGULAR

Anál nathrach, orth’ bháis’s bethad, do chél dénmha.


The Charm of Making [AND BREAKING], an incantation repeatedly uttered by both Merlin and Morgana, is in an Old Gaelic dialect that translates to 

"Serpent's breath, charm of death and life, thy omen of [re-]making."




Masculinity is all about Direct, Forward-Moving Energy


LADY VERSION :
I loved being you. 

Every second of it. 

Oh, the way you burn like a sun

Like a whole screaming world on fire. 

I remember that feeling, and I always will. 

And I will always miss it. 


How To Awaken The Divine Masculine Within You 

by Teal Swan (and friend)



Regardless of whether we are male or female, we all have divine masculine and divine feminine energy within us. 




It is beneficial to draw on these energies within ourselves whenever they serve us. 

But it is especially important that we release resistance to the essence of the specific gender that we chose for this life. 

As it applies to men, the path of self-actualization asks that those who were born male, embrace and express their masculine essence.





In our modern society, masculinity has been seen as a problem rather than something that should be embraced, because it is rare that any man exhibits true masculinity. 

The only example of masculinity we currently have is the Shadow-Side of Masculinity. 

This shadow side of masculinity fuels the societal idea of competitive hierarchy


In other words, it fuels the idea that one person on top of another person. 


The shadow side of masculinity perpetuates vertical thinking.




Vertical thinking is comparative thinking; where it is possible to be better than or less than someone else. 

And so, the power struggle was born. And so were the Abrahamic religions. The Abrahamic religions replaced the traditional view of divine balance in the universe (which up to that point had been represented by god and goddess) with a solo male god. 

When a solo, male god became the source of life and hope for salvation, the feminine characteristics of fertility, creation and life were now seen as masculine qualities and femininity held no more cards. It was diminished. The result is that for thousands of years, men who succumbed to the shadow side of masculinity (not those who embraced divine masculine) ruled the earth. 



The men that ruled the earth, ruled with domination, control and patriarchy; things that have nothing to do with divine masculinity.



Divine masculine represents :



  • action, 
  • direction, 
  • movement, 
  • responsibility, 
  • strength, 
  • focus, 
  • fatherhood, 
  • the sun, 
  • generosity, 
  • encouragement, 
  • material abundance, 
  • clarity, 
  • intellect, 
  • transformation and 
  • growth. 

The divine masculine is what is going to support the birth process of the new earth, which is being brought into manifestation by divine feminine. 

Thus, the new earth is a co-creation that depends on divine feminine and divine masculine both coming into its full respective power. To allow the divine masculine within yourself to surface, search for these aspects within yourself. 

Every Man is a unique expression of the divine masculine. Therefore, coming into alignment with the divine masculine within you is not about conforming to an archetypal idea of what divine masculine is or isn’t. It is about releasing the things that disallow your own unique masculine essence from radiating through you. 




It is about re-claiming Who You Really Are. 

Ask yourself, “is there any part of the traditional male gender role that I actually enjoy”? 

For example, do you enjoy going to the gym? Or do you go to the gym because you think you’re not good enough if you’re too skinny or too fat?




Most men associate masculinity with being a jerk and hurting people. 

Even though hurting people has nothing to do with masculinity. 

The goal for you, as a man, is to awaken the highest aspect of masculinity within yourself, not to become testosterone driven, competitive, egomaniacs. 

It just so happens that the standard example of the “masculine man” is the man whose divine masculinity is drowning in shadow aspects. In our society, the typical masculine man is also known as “the asshole”. A person most men don’t want to be. But it is because of this association with masculinity that most men don’t want to embrace their masculinity. 

You throw the baby out with the bath water, which is understandable because the only version of masculinity you see, is not an actual version of masculinity.

Here are some suggestions, which will help you tap into your own divine masculine:

1. Explore, question and heal your ideas and feelings towards fatherhood and towards your own father. 







It does not matter whether or not you actually want kids; most men still have unhealthy ideas and feelings about fatherhood, which need to be healed. Your first introduction to the divine masculine is your father. If you have resistance to your father, you have resistance to the divine masculine within you. This means that one of the most important parts of the process of coming into your own masculine essence is to examine and heal the relationship between you and your father. For some of you, this will feel like a tall order a tall order but don’t worry; this does not mean that you have to take action to re connect with your father. Your father does not even have to be alive in order to heal your relationship with him. 





What you do need to do is separate yourself from your father so you can shed off all the damaging ideas he passed on to you and set yourself free from him. 

You will find that once you distance yourself mentally and emotionally from him, You can learn to be yourself and only then can you make peace with your father. 

Only then can you truly embody the divine masculine within you.

2. Examine the current perception of manhood in your family and in your culture. Is your concept of masculinity benefitting you? 

Examine what you learned while you were growing up about what it meant to be male. Examine the traditional gender roles and associations with masculinity on your culture. This will vary even from culture to culture in your own country. 

For example, where I live in America the traditional role of being male entails: 

  • Being the provider 
  • Protecting and defending women and children 
  • Managing money 
  • Either playing or watching sports or both 
  • Being the head of the household 
  • Responsibility 
  • Strength
  • Hunting 
  • Weaponry 
  • Gaining power 
  • Being a husband 
  • Being a father 
  • Not expressing fears/other emotions (especially not crying) 
  • Having a successful career 
  • Achievements 
  • Owning a nice car 
  • Building or maintaining fitness and physical prowess 
  • Being able to fix things 
  • Doing the manual labor jobs around the house 
  • Opening doors for women 
  • Doing the heavy lifting for women 
  • Shaving facial hair or deliberately growing it out 
  • Standing up for yourself and others 
  • Keeping your hair short 
  • Confrontation 
  • Being goal oriented 



After you examine what it means in your family and culture to be male, decide what parts of that you connect with and enjoy and what parts you do not. 

Which ones do you personally feel reflect the divine masculine within you and which ones do you personally feel suppress it? 

The answer will be different for all men, because the divine masculine expresses itself in different ways.

3. Embrace forward movement. 




Imagine you were watching your life third person. Imagine following yourself for a day in your life. Are there areas of your life where you feel stagnation? What choices could you make (and enact) right now to bring forward movement into those areas of your life?

Masculinity is all about direct, forward moving energy. 

When you make a decision, you open the door to what you want and close the door to what you don’t want. This prevents you from scattering your energy in different directions. It ensures that your vital energy will move in one direction with force and direction, like a missile locked on a target. 


A big part of moving forward is the willingness to take risks and learn how to turn mistakes into beneficial lessons to propel you forward even faster. 

Stagnation is the opposite of masculine energy. 

When you are unwilling to make mistakes, you stagnate and the divine masculine energy within you becomes suppressed. 

No more hiding from fears. 

If you’re committed to embracing your masculinity, it is time to face your fears head on.

4. Adopt a confident posture. 



Confidence is forward moving energy. 

Your confidence will naturally make your body language and posture change; but what most people don’t know is that you can deliberately use confident body language and posture to create mental confidence. Stand up straight and tall with your shoulders back and your chest exposed.. Walk with purpose. Look at people in the eye and hold your body in a posture that exudes purpose. Everything about masculinity is direct. This type of posture is quite different than using posture that is defensive. 

Divine masculinity does not actually manifest in the body as closed defensiveness (which is what many of us identify as masculine… we’ve all seen the gorilla guy at the gym). Masculine energy is not a wall, instead it is very open, and it rushes forward to meet you. Making sure your posture reflects masculinity goes hand in hand with making sure your clothes reflect masculinity. 



Wear clothes that fit you. 


If you are drowning in your clothes, you will naturally feel smaller and this can diminish masculine energy.



Take a look at your wardrobe - Does your current personal style reflect who you want to be (which is who you really are)? 

Or does it reflect someone you don’t want to be any longer? Does it make you feel powerful and progressive? Or does it make you feel young, small and stagnant? 



If your personal style does not reflect the masculinity within you, it is time to change your personal style.


5. Be an active giver. 





Masculinity is not a passive receiver of love. 




It is an active giver of love. 



This means, learn how to initiate. 


Be a transmitter. 


Masculinity is generous; it isn’t stingy with itself or  with its resources. 

This applies to sex as well. Masculine is to sexuality what feminine is to sensuality. Channel your sexual energy instead of repressing it. A real man does not let his energy get stuck in the sacral chakra at the level of lust. He is brave enough to let it move up through his heart and mind. When you feel yourself getting sexually stimulated, take the energy you feel in your pelvis and breathe it up through your body. Visualize breathing it up your spine and into your chest and neck and head. Visualize it flooding your whole body. Channel this energy towards heart-centered pursuits; let it drive you to action. Visualize that energy radiating through your heart chakra. 

You are not at the mercy of your carnal energies. 
Sexual energy is energy you can use. 
You can channel it towards anything you desire. 

In fact, many male athletes find that their most successful performances are the result of deliberately channeling sexual energy towards their sport.


6. Take on the role of the encourager.


If you are the worrier or the skeptic, who warns yourself and others against going through with things (who warns against forward movement) you are suppressing the divine masculine. 



Don’t warn people around you off the path they are headed towards. 

Instead, encourage them towards their fears; encourage them to make the attempt. 

Honor their process. 

Allow them to make mistakes without rescuing them. 



The rescuer is not a function of manhood; it is a function of boyhood. 

The rescuer is a boy trying to prove himself. 



A Man does not need to prove himself. 


Divine Masculine is all about growth and encouraging others towards growth. 



Encouragement is the most divine manifestation of the masculine expression of love.


7. Take responsibility. 




To embrace the divine masculine within you, you must learn how to own your own life, mind and choices. Inner strength rides on the ability to consciously take charge of yourself. This means, no more blaming other people for your problems. You can only move forward when you discover what you are doing to hold yourself back. Divine masculine understands that you can only change yourself; so your only axis of power is what you do with yourself. Hold yourself accountable for everything you think, say and do. Catch yourself in the act if you are thinking and acting like a victim. Part of taking responsibility for yourself is coming to know yourself. A big part of the forward movement of divine masculine is the inner quest for self-actualization. If you are avoiding things, most especially yourself, you are suppressing the divine masculine.

8. Pick a skill, trade or specific expertise to fully develop. 





Divine masculine is about excellence. 

To excel means to move forward. It means growth. 





It doesn’t matter what you choose to turn into expertise as long as you have something in your life that you are determined to develop and master. 

It may be beneficial if you struggle with masculinity, to choose something to master that you already associate with masculinity.

9. Examine your resistance relative to being male on the spiritual, mental, physical and societal level. 



Resistance is a word we use to describe the energy behind negative emotion. Do you have resistance (therefore negative emotion) relative to how tall or short you are? Do you have resistance relative to being a husband? Do you have resistance relative to opening doors for women or paying for dates? Do you have resistance relative to your job? Do you have resistance to your level of fitness? Do you have resistance towards being direct with others? Do you have resistance to sex? Does some part of you believe that it isn’t manly to express your emotion? Or to really get your hands dirty raising children? If you feel resistance relative to any aspect of life that you identify as “male”, you have something in the way of the divine masculine within you. For example, you do not need to play sports to embrace the divine feminine, but you are suppressing the divine masculine as long as you associate sports with being male and continue to harbor resistance to sports. Try to find your core beliefs relative to the resistance you feel and then release those core beliefs. Nothing allows divine masculine to shine through better than releasing your resistance to the things you associate with masculinity. Many of the beliefs we hold about masculinity have nothing to do with actual masculinity; they are just the cultural byproduct of resistance. You need to be willing to heal your negative emotions relative to anything you identify as male to set the masculinity within you free. It is exhausting suppressing the essence of who you are. And so, it is time to quit suppressing who you are. Trust me, as soon as women stop accepting the role of victim and come into alignment with their own feminine power, they will all thank you for it. 

We are not actually attracted to what we have tried to turn you into. 

We disrespect what we have turned you into. 

We secretly love men!

10. Learn about women. 




Learn about our cycles, learn about our bodies, and learn about our minds, our cultural conditioning and our desires. In the past, the collective belief among men has been that if you want to be a true man, femininity is an off limits subject. But how do you intend to support the divine feminine and conjoin with the divine feminine if you know nothing about it? All that is, is child like ignorance. The more you learn about women, the more confidence you will have around them. This is especially important if you are in a relationship with someone. Every woman is different. We are only a mystery to you if you don’t take the time to understand us individually. So learn to ask us questions and pay attention to us. Continuing to propagate the belief that women are a mystery sets you up to fail. Once you become convinced that we are a mystery, it is my promise that we always will be. There is a little theory that goes like this, women like men that are either ass holes, or treat them badly. It isn’t true. The reality is that one of two things is happening.



a. We had a father that treated us badly and so we are constantly love reincarnating our fathers because our brains are trying desperately to get the love we needed from our father. 

Our subconscious minds are on an agenda. If we can make a guy who treats us badly, treat us well… we have solved our daddy issues.

b. We are biological creatures. 

We want to feel safe (most of us don’t) so we want to breed with someone who is a good protector and we are driven to create genetically superior children so that they will survive too. 

It just so happens that most men who are protective (therefore subconsciously make us feel safe) and possess the features that we subconsciously associate with strong offspring tend to be more “jockish” and aggressive. 

We are not attracted to the asshole within them. We are simply attracted to the little bit of divine masculine that shines through these men. And since so few men have learned to awaken their divine masculine, we take all we can get. We are not attracted to meekness in men, and it just so happens that many men, who are nice, are meek. That feels like weakness to us. It makes us feel vulnerable and it shuts down our biological sex drive toward you. We do not want to breed with weak men. And so we often find ourselves feeling sexually turned off by nice guys. But the truth of the matter is, it has nothing to do with your niceness; it has to do with your meekness. We want a man who is a perfect blend. One who is tender towards us and towards children, but who exudes the masculinity that we melt for. We’re simply convinced that this type of man doesn’t exist. So, we settle.

As women, we tell you a very confusing story about what we want and don’t want from you. We want you to be men and do things for us but we want to do everything for ourselves. We have a “come support me” and then “now go away” type of attitude. This is not your fault. We do this because it is confusing to be a woman. We want you to open our door for us; most of us just don’t know it yet because we’ve been taught that you opening the door for us, makes us powerless to you and incapable. It has nothing to do with you. This is not your problem. We as women have not come into our divine feminine power and so we’re still fighting you for power. We are full of beliefs about the things that strip us of freedom and power over our own lives and bodies. And so, we’re afraid to let you be men. We have erroneously believed for years that the manlier you are, the more we get hurt. Why? Because our only model of masculinity is “the asshole” too! Feel free to ask those of us who are stuck in a fight against you for our own sense of power, to question our own beliefs. Expose us to your beliefs as well. It will aid our expansion. Most of us haven’t questioned our beliefs relative to gender roles. 

So help us out. 

We hate fighting against you this hard. 

We’re too stressed in our own lives to keep it up and it isn’t healthy for us or for you.

If you are interested in learning more about divine masculinity, I would suggest reading the book King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Robert Moore and Douglass Gillette. It is a wonderful book that teaches men how to become the embodiment of the matured form of masculine energy within them. Divine masculine does not need to be cultivated or created within you as men. It is you. It is the essence of your choice to come into this life as a man. It is an ever-present energy that is always there, it is merely obscured by your thoughts and actions. If you begin to clear your minds and lives of the things that are obscuring that essence, it will immediately shine through on it’s own. And I can tell you as a sensual woman, there is nothing more intoxicatingly addictive than a man whose divine masculinity shines through.