The Narcissist is a Perfect Engine

The more thought I give to it, the more I find it always comes back to this Idea of Reflection.

We all see ourselves reflected in others - 

in Other People.

The Narcissist, The Borderline Personality, looks only for The Familiar, for The Recognisable, The Comfortable, Comforting and Secure.

The Unshallow Man sees all of this, sees Father, 

and looks still further beyond that to see 

The Differences, and finds Meaning in The Contrast.